How men judge women

How men judge women? 

Usually when couples have just met, there is usually a ‘honeymoon period’ when both are on their best behaviour.

But what is it going to be like further down the track and from a man’s perspective, how can you tell what she’s really like and whether or not she is proper ‘girlfriend material’ for the future. Ladies would you like to know?

Here are some of the key issues a man may well be judging you on in those early minutes, hours or days after you have just met.


Without a doubt age is a major factor in how attractive a man finds a woman, which we are told actually stems from history and how likely a woman is to bear children. Statistically 19 year old’s would produce exactly twice as many children as a 30 year old and since time began that has been part of the attraction process. Obviously you cannot change your actual age but you can take a look at your wardrobe and make sure your clothes and hair are up to date as personal styling can add or take off years! And perhaps in today’s world mens’ attitude to age is changing?


Can be in the eye of the beholder, although in almost all cultures around the world, up to 94% of people agree that attractiveness and facial features do play some part in attracting men to women. It is also said that body shape can play a very big role too and a 70% waist to hip ratio is also one of the most important considerations in the attraction process as is that of height, where a 92% ratio is favoured in terms of female to male height. Again the right clothes can help here – if you are six foot tall do you need those 6″ heels?

Your friends 

Personally you can have made all the right noises and worked your butt off to create the right impression, but then one of your so called friends opens her mouth and drops you right in it. Men tend to see your friends as an extension of you and your personality, so if in doubt, find a quiet corner away from everyone else, where external influences are not going to be a major distraction or put him right off.

Your laugh

Guys love to make a girl laugh and if it happens that can be great. But laughing at the wrong time can be a little off putting and also keep it in proportion. He wants you to laugh at his jokes but not be worrying that you’re laughing at him.

Your choice of drink

Can say a lot too.

If drinking cocktails or champagne is your scene then great, be yourself and don’t change that. But what about a guy who prefers real ale to lager, maybe showing your interest in something a little more down to earth may really impress him. And make you stand out from the crowd a little too?

Using your mobile 

You have just met, you’re deep in conversation and a text message comes through. What do you do? Well many some people would pick up their phone and text back straight away, but what type of impression does that create?  Texts can wait, but perhaps a new relationship can’t. So why let it get in the way? Giving your date your full attention is very attractive behaviour.

Is this attraction process easier than we thought maybe?

Lots of different people for you to meet!

Find Love With Singles Events in Nottingham

Find Love With Singles Events in Nottingham

 There is no doubt that it’s getting harder and harder to find a great person to settle down with.

Some people seem to do it easily while it’s a lot harder for others. For many people it’s very hard to find enough time to meet quality people. All of us at some point want to be able to find a great partner to settle down with but we all know it’s not that easy all the time.

Especially if you are someone who works in a busy career where there is a lot expected of you. Good news is that there are ways that you can meet a lot of new people in as short a timespan as possible and it’s via singles events Nottingham.

Finding the time to meet new people is only half the battle because you could end up making time for this area of your life but still not meet a quality person to share your life with. So what you need to do is maximise your dating efforts so to speak. You need to be able to meet new people in a way whereby you can maximise your chances of meeting the right person.

Here are some of the prerequisites you need to be able to fit:

  1. They need to also be single and looking for the same things as you
  2. They need to have similar interests to you
  3. They need to be the kind of person you’d settle down with


At a singles event Nottingham there is a high chance you will end up meeting someone who fits these three prerequisites. You will meet many single people at the various events and this means by default you’ll end up with a high chance of meeting the right kind of people for a relationship.

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