How men judge women?
Usually when couples have just met, there is usually a ‘honeymoon period’ when both are on their best behaviour.
But what is it going to be like further down the track and from a man’s perspective, how can you tell what she’s really like and whether or not she is proper ‘girlfriend material’ for the future. Ladies would you like to know?
Here are some of the key issues a man may well be judging you on in those early minutes, hours or days after you have just met.
Without a doubt age is a major factor in how attractive a man finds a woman, which we are told actually stems from history and how likely a woman is to bear children. Statistically 19 year old’s would produce exactly twice as many children as a 30 year old and since time began that has been part of the attraction process. Obviously you cannot change your actual age but you can take a look at your wardrobe and make sure your clothes and hair are up to date as personal styling can add or take off years! And perhaps in today’s world mens’ attitude to age is changing?
Can be in the eye of the beholder, although in almost all cultures around the world, up to 94% of people agree that attractiveness and facial features do play some part in attracting men to women. It is also said that body shape can play a very big role too and a 70% waist to hip ratio is also one of the most important considerations in the attraction process as is that of height, where a 92% ratio is favoured in terms of female to male height. Again the right clothes can help here – if you are six foot tall do you need those 6″ heels?
Personally you can have made all the right noises and worked your butt off to create the right impression, but then one of your so called friends opens her mouth and drops you right in it. Men tend to see your friends as an extension of you and your personality, so if in doubt, find a quiet corner away from everyone else, where external influences are not going to be a major distraction or put him right off.
Guys love to make a girl laugh and if it happens that can be great. But laughing at the wrong time can be a little off putting and also keep it in proportion. He wants you to laugh at his jokes but not be worrying that you’re laughing at him.
Your choice of drink
Can say a lot too.
If drinking cocktails or champagne is your scene then great, be yourself and don’t change that. But what about a guy who prefers real ale to lager, maybe showing your interest in something a little more down to earth may really impress him. And make you stand out from the crowd a little too?
Using your mobile
You have just met, you’re deep in conversation and a text message comes through. What do you do? Well many some people would pick up their phone and text back straight away, but what type of impression does that create? Texts can wait, but perhaps a new relationship can’t. So why let it get in the way? Giving your date your full attention is very attractive behaviour.
Is this attraction process easier than we thought maybe?