If You Want To Succeed With Speed Dating You Need To Ask More Interesting Questions
Okay, so there is more to succeeding at speed dating than simply asking interesting questions.
There are factors such as dressing appropriately, your behaviour in general and other factors.
However, the conversational factor is a big one and the reality is that conversation plays a significant role in whether or not there will be any spark and attraction between two people. Conversation is so crucial because it’s how we form connections with one another and this is what eventually turns into that initial spark, chemistry and then a deeper connection and asking interesting speed dating questions are a must.
So how do you have an interesting conversation then?
How do you have a conversation that will stick out in your partner’s mind so that they will remember you, and mostly you out of the dozen or so people they’ll meet on the night?
It almost seems like it’s impossible but it isn’t.
Here are a few guidelines you should stick to if you want to have an interesting conversation.
First, is to simply ask interesting questions. We know that seems extremely vague at first glance but let’s explore what we mean a little deeper.
One thing you should do is not spend your time talking about your work or asking your date questions about their work.
This is boring and it’s a topic we hear time and time again. People at a speed-dating event don’t want to talk about their jobs.
Instead, talk about some crazy things.
What is the craziest thing you’ve done in your life?
What is the thing you are most proud of in your life?
Have you ever done anything dangerous and if so, what was it?
These kinds of questions are examples but it gives you an idea about how you can proceed asking more interesting questions.
If you can ask these kinds of interesting, different questions then it will stick out in your date’s mind much more than asking the same old, boring questions we hear all the time.